Our Journey

In 2015, we completed a journey between Orihuela court and London Royal Court of Justice on foot. 44 marathons in 44 days with the hope of raising awareness of parental child abduction and parental alienation and also, on a very personal level, to show my daughter that I would travel the world for
her.

http://walkacrossborders.blogspot.com/

On that occasion, we raised funds for the Reunite
International Child Abduction Centre Charity

This time, with our cycle, as well as having another attempt at raising awareness of these issues, we hope to help to raise funds for another charity Parental Alienation Awareness (1187738) who aim to raise awareness, educate, & campaign against this form of child abuse that needlessly disconnects children, parents, & their extended families.

This, many of you know, I can directly relate to...

We are hoping to raise £2000 to help with publishing and distribution costs in the production of parental alienation awareness brochures.

www.paawareness.co.uk

The link for donating to this charity is :

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/tandemacrossborders-paa

I understand the covid situation has caused financial hardship for many.. Charities like this are also finding these times extremely testing.

If you cant help financially, thats ok. But could I ask that you share my JustGiving page link so others can help to support this worthy charity?

Thanks all xx


Tuesday, 28 June 2022

Why Tandem Across Borders?

In 2015, I completed a journey between Orihuela court and London Royal Court of Justice on foot.
44 marathons in 44 days with the hope of raising awareness of parental child abduction and parental alienation and also, on a very personal level, to show my daughter that I would travel the world for her.

On that occasion, we raised funds for the Reunite International Child Abduction Centre Charity

We have also arranged several other events and activities for this same charity

- Football tournaments
- Tandem Skydive
- Music concerts
- A shop 
- Participation in the Reunite annual walk in London
- Fund raising evenings and raffles

Sadly, over a decade later and my daughter has still not had any contact with her paternal family and tragically, she has lost a loving grandmother permanently as she passed away in 2015 before they could be reunited. 

This is not an isolated case !!!!

There are many children who are denied contact with one of their parents and their family through the severe alienating tactics and manipulation of the court processes using tactics such as parental child abduction, parental alienation and false allegations in the family courts.

With our cycle we are hoping to have another attempt at raising awareness of these issues, which is why we have chosen a relatively new charity, Parental Alienation Awareness as our main supported charity.

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/tandemacrossborders-paa

Sadly, due to the continued Covid restrictions, we had to postpone this journey in 2021 but I rescheduled it to start on August 20th 2022 and hope to complete the journey on 9th September 2022.

The aims of the Parental Alienation Awareness Charity are to raise awareness, educate, & campaign against this form of child abuse that needlessly disconnects children, parents, & their extended families.  

Details of the charity can be found on this link

www.paawareness.co.uk

info@paawareness.co.uk

Parental Alienation Awareness Registered charity number 1187738

Through this cycle, we would like to try to raise enough funding to help to produce and distribute awareness information in relation to the effects of parental alienation on children and families.

Our initial target for this is £2,000

Saturday, 18 June 2022

Cycle a few km with me??

Just thought I would write a quick note about Tandem Across Borders - Spain to UK which I am due to start on 20th August

Tandem Across Borders Route

My route is on here but it is subject to slight change depending on what happens (eg.. might have to divert slightly to meet people and if any accomodation change is needed) but will stick to the plan as much as possible.

https://www.komoot.com/collection/1525131/-tandem-across-borders

Now... about the riders... Some people assumed that Michelle will be doing this with me. That is not the case. She will be supporting me in other ways and may be able to get to UK at the end but generally, she is not a main rider/stoker..

At the moment, this is how it stands... The first 7 days throughout the whole of Spain, I will be joined as co-rider by another parent who is affected by Parental Alienation, Mike Henstridge ..



https://www.facebook.com/groups/403924345072355/?ref=share

He will be leaving once we reach Perpignan in France..

From there I have no confirmed co-riders throughout France so as it stands, I will be cycling this part alone unless I gain volunteers beforehand or at the hostels I will be staying en route..

I arrive in UK on the evening of 5th September (Day 17) where I will be staying in Folkestone.

When in UK, I will be cycling to Chelsmford (Day 18 - 6th Sept).. Red Lodge, Suffolk (Day 19-7th Sept), Harlow (Day 20-8th Sept) and then on the final day (9th Sept), I will have other parents/supporters cycling with me (on the tandem) at different parts of the stage .. 

Alen and Natasha have confirmed so far... Others have shown interest but not confirmed...

We will be meeting at Royal Courts of Justice, London en route and then heading to Peacehaven where I complete the ride.. (over 2700km)



Now, as you know, I am supporting the Parental Alienation Awareness charity on this cycle who support parents and families affected by these extremely difficult situations as well as aiming to raise awareness of these issues.



I would love for other parents and/or supporters to join me on the tandem or ride alongside for ANY parts of the UK stages - Even if just a few km...

This ride is about parents, families AND children that are subjected to these behaviours and/or have been affected by Parental Child Abduction... It is not just about Aleyah and myself.. I know there are many affected parents on my contact list..

I would love for other parents and families to be involved in some way.. Please let me know if you would like to be involved...

The JustGiving link is:

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/tandemacrossborders-paa

My contact details are:

s.monkdalton@gmail.com

0034 622 925 754 (whatsapp)

Thanks all xx😍 🚴🏼🚴🏼

Tuesday, 14 June 2022

Day 17 of 21 - Arras to Dover (then additional to Folkestone)

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Day 17 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 5th September 2022 is my last day in France

🇪🇸El día 17 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 5 de septiembre de 2022 es mi último día en Francia

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿I might be meeting up with my neighbour Leo on this stage of the cycle so the route might be subject to change

🇪🇸Es posible que me reúna con mi vecino Leo en esta etapa del ciclo, por lo que la ruta podría estar sujeta a cambios.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿However, at this time, I plan to start the day where I left off in Arras heading straight to Calais where we will take the ferry over to Dover

🇪🇸Sin embargo, en este momento, planeo comenzar el día donde lo dejé en Arras dirigiéndome directamente a Calais, donde tomaremos el ferry a Dover.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿I will then cycle to Folkestone as my end point as I have been kindly offered a place to stay there by John, a contact of the Alice's Escapes charity

🇪🇸Luego iré en bicicleta a Folkestone como mi punto final, ya que John, un contacto de la organización benéfica Alice's Escapes, me ofreció amablemente un lugar para quedarme allí.


Calais, France


Dover, UK

Route Points:

Arras - Auchel (40km)

Auchel - Saint-Omer (39km)

Saint-Omer - Port Calais (40km)

Ferry to Dover

Dover to Folkestone (13km)



Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿This will be approximately 130km. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 2280km.

🇪🇸Serán aproximadamente 130 km.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aproximadamente 2280 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links

🇪🇸Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces de JustGiving

Alices Escapes

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!

Monday, 13 June 2022

Day 16 of 21 - Soissons to Arras

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Day 16 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 4th September 2022 is my penultimate day in France and another day where I am currently going to be riding solo. If you would like to join me as my co-rider, let me know

🇪🇸El día 16 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 4 de septiembre de 2022 es mi penúltimo día en Francia y otro día en el que actualmente voy a montar solo.  Si desea unirse a mí como mi copiloto, hágamelo saber

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿We will be cycling through Ham, then along the River Somme, through Bapaume and end the day in Arras.

🇪🇸Pasaremos en bicicleta por Ham, luego a lo largo del río Somme, a través de Bapaume y terminaremos el día en Arras.


River Somme

Bapaume, France

Arras, France


🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿I also would like an emergency contact for this stage so if you know anybody between Soissons and Arras that would help in the case of incident or emergency, please let me know.

🇪🇸También me gustaría un contacto de emergencia para esta etapa, así que si conoce a alguien entre Soissons y Arras que pueda ayudar en caso de incidente o emergencia, hágamelo saber.

Route Points:

Soissons - Tergnier (38km)

Tergnier - Péronne (49km)

Péronne - Bapaume (21km)

Bapaume - Arras (23km)



Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿This will be approximately 121km. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 2148km.

🇪🇸Serán aproximadamente 121 km.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aproximadamente 2148 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

Alices Escapes

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links above

🇪🇸Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces JustGiving anteriores


B&B Hotel - Arras

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Thank you to Gavin Sunshine for his kind donation to sponsor this day

🇪🇸Gracias a Gavin Sunshine por su amable donación para patrocinar este día.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!

Saturday, 11 June 2022

Day 15 of 21 - Lesmont to Soissons

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Day 15 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 3rd September 2022 is the first day of my final week but another day that I dont currently have a co-rider/stoker.

🇪🇸El día 15 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 3 de septiembre de 2022 es el primer día de mi última semana, pero otro día en el que actualmente no tengo un copiloto/fogonero.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Please... If you know anyone in this area who wants to be my co-rider on this stage, please get in touch.

🇪🇸Por favor... Si conoces a alguien en esta área que quiera ser mi copiloto en esta etapa, por favor ponte en contacto.

Soissons, France


🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿I also would like an emergency contact for this stage so if you know anybody between Lesmont and Soissons that would help in the case of incident or emergency, please let me know.

🇪🇸También me gustaría un contacto de emergencia para esta etapa, así que si conoce a alguien entre Lesmont y Soissons que pueda ayudar en caso de incidente o emergencia, hágamelo saber.

Route Points:

Lesmont - Fère-Champenoise (58km)

Fère-Champenoise - Dormans (53km)

Dormans - Fère-en-Tardenois (20km)

Fère-en-Tardenois - Soissons (27km)


Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿This will be approximately 157km so a very long day. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 2027km.

🇪🇸Serán aproximadamente 157 km, por lo que será un día muy largo.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aproximadamente 2027 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links above

🇪🇸Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces JustGiving anteriores

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿Finally, I am looking for a sponsor for this day to help fund a safe place to stay for the evening in or around Soissons. Please let me know if you can help.

🇪🇸Finalmente, estoy buscando un patrocinador para este día para ayudar a financiar un lugar seguro para pasar la noche en Soissons o sus alrededores.  Por favor, avíseme si puede ayudar.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿I will ensure that daily sponsors will be mentioned on media / social media for this day if agreed.

🇪🇸Me aseguraré de que los patrocinadores diarios se mencionen en los medios/redes sociales para este día si así se acuerda.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!

Tuesday, 7 June 2022

Day 14 of 21 - Montbard to Lesmont

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Day 14 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 2nd September 2022 is another short day but another day that I dont currently have a co-rider/stoker.

🇪🇸 El día 14 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 2 de septiembre de 2022 es otro día corto pero otro día en el que actualmente no tengo un copiloto/fogonero.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please... If you know anyone in this area who wants to be my co-rider on this stage, please get in touch.

🇪🇸 Por favor... Si conoces a alguien en esta área que quiera ser mi copiloto en esta etapa, por favor ponte en contacto.


Lesmont, France


🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I also would like an emergency contact for this stage so if you know anybody between Montbard and Lesmont that would help in the case of incident or emergency, please let me know.

🇪🇸 También me gustaría un contacto de emergencia para esta etapa, así que si conoce a alguien entre Montbard y Lesmont que pueda ayudar en caso de incidente o emergencia, hágamelo saber.

Route Points:

Montbard - Laignes (29km)

Laignes - Vendeuvre-sur-Barse (52km)

Vendeuvre-sur-Barse - Lesmont (29km)


Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 This will be approximately 105km and looks like more downhill. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 1870km.

🇪🇸 Esto será aproximadamente 105 km y parece más cuesta abajo.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aproximadamente 1870 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸 Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links 

🇪🇸 Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces de JustGiving

Alices Escapes

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Finally, I am looking for a sponsor for this day to help fund a safe place to stay for the evening in or around Lesmont. Please let me know if you can help.

🇪🇸 Finalmente, estoy buscando un patrocinador para este día para ayudar a financiar un lugar seguro para pasar la noche en Lesmont o sus alrededores.  Por favor, avíseme si puede ayudar.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I will ensure that daily sponsors will be mentioned on media / social media for this day if agreed.

🇪🇸 Me aseguraré de que los patrocinadores diarios se mencionen en los medios/redes sociales para este día si así se acuerda.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸 ¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!

Sunday, 5 June 2022

Day 13 of 21 - Le Creusot to Montbard

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Day 13 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 1st September 2022 is a shorter day which I am sure will be needed after the previous stage but another day that I dont currently have a co-rider/stoker.

🇪🇸 El día 13 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 1 de septiembre de 2022 es un día más corto que estoy seguro será necesario después de la etapa anterior, pero otro día en el que actualmente no tengo un copiloto/fogonero.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please... If you know anyone in this area who wants to be my co-rider on this stage, please get in touch.

🇪🇸 Por favor... Si conoces a alguien en esta área que quiera ser mi copiloto en esta etapa, por favor ponte en contacto.


Montbard, France

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I also would like an emergency contact for this stage so if you know anybody between Le Creusot and Montbard that would help in the case of incident or emergency, please let me know.

🇪🇸 También me gustaría un contacto de emergencia para esta etapa, así que si conoces a alguien entre Le Creusot y Montbard que pueda ayudar en caso de incidente o emergencia, házmelo saber.

Route Points:

Le Creusot - Saulieu (65km)

Saulieu - Montbard (48km)



Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 This will be approximately 113km and looks like some is refreshingly downhill. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 1765km.

🇪🇸 Serán aproximadamente 113 km y parece que algunos son refrescantemente cuesta abajo.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aprox. 1765 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸 Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

Alices Escapes

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links above

🇪🇸 Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces JustGiving anteriores

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Finally, I am looking for a sponsor for this day to help fund a safe place to stay for the evening in or around Montbard. Please let me know if you can help.

🇪🇸 Finalmente, estoy buscando un patrocinador para este día para ayudar a financiar un lugar seguro para pasar la noche en Montbard o sus alrededores.  Por favor, avíseme si puede ayudar.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I will ensure that daily sponsors will be mentioned on media / social media for this day if agreed.

🇪🇸 Me aseguraré de que los patrocinadores diarios se mencionen en los medios/redes sociales para este día si así se acuerda.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸 ¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!

New Bike for Tandem Across Borders

Welcome to the new member of the Tandem Across Borders - Spain to UK team..

I am absolutely delighted with this bike...


I asked our fundraising group to think of a name for this lovely cycle and one of the responses was "Your tandem … obvious … ‘Aleyah II’ … because the first is waiting for you x" 😍

Sadly, our "Jean-Claude Tandem" will now have to be sold.

Costa Blanca Bike Hire did an amazing job of restoring it but the new bike is much more appropriate for a 2700km cycle xxx

If you would like to purchase the old boy, please make me an offer.

Steven Monk-Dalton
s.monkdalton@gmail.com
0034 622 925 754


We have had so much enjoyment from this bike and I am sad to let it go but I do need to get him a good home xxx


Wednesday, 1 June 2022

Day 12 of 21 - Lyon to Le Creusot

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Day 12 of 21 of Tandem Across Borders on 31st August is one of my longest cycle days but another day that I dont currently have a co-rider/stoker.

🇪🇸 El día 12 de 21 de Tandem Across Borders el 31 de agosto es uno de mis días de ciclo más largos, pero otro día en el que actualmente no tengo un copiloto/fogonero.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please... If you know anyone in this area who wants to be my co-rider on this stage or part of it, please get in touch.

🇪🇸 Por favor... Si conoces a alguien en esta área que quiera ser mi copiloto en esta etapa o parte de ella, por favor ponte en contacto.

Le Creusot, France

Route Points:

Lyon - Mâcon (74km)

Mâcon - Cluny (25km)

Cluny - Gourdon (34km)

Gourdon - Le Creusot (25km)

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I also would like an emergency contact for this stage so if you know anybody between Lyon and Le Creusot that would help in the case of incident or emergency, please let me know.

🇪🇸 También me gustaría un contacto de emergencia para esta etapa, así que si conoces a alguien entre Lyon y Le Creusot que pueda ayudar en caso de incidente o emergencia, házmelo saber.

Steven Monk-Dalton
0034 622 925 754
s.monkdalton@gmail.com

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 This will be approximately 157km which is one of the longest days and looks like a lot is uphill. At this stage, we will have cycled approx 1652km.

🇪🇸 Serán aproximadamente 157 km, que es uno de los días más largos y parece que hay mucho cuesta arriba.  En esta etapa, habremos pedaleado aprox. 1652 km.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Please help me to raise funds for these extremely worthy charities Alices Escapes and Parental Alienation Awareness

🇪🇸 Ayúdenme a recaudar fondos para estas organizaciones benéficas extremadamente valiosas Alices Escapes y Parental Alienation Awareness

Alices Escapes

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 You can sponsor us on either of the JustGiving links above

🇪🇸 Puede patrocinarnos en cualquiera de los enlaces JustGiving anteriores

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 Finally, I am looking for a sponsor for this day to help fund a safe place to stay for the evening near Le Creusot. Please let me know if you can help. I have already paid this up front out of our own pocket at a cost of €37

🇪🇸 Finalmente, estoy buscando un patrocinador para este día para ayudar a financiar un lugar seguro para pasar la noche cerca de Le Creusot.  Por favor, avíseme si puede ayudar.  Ya he pagado esto por adelantado de nuestro propio bolsillo a un costo de € 37


CHAMBRE CHEZ L'HABITANT


🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 I will ensure that daily sponsors will be mentioned on media / social media for this day if agreed.

🇪🇸 Me aseguraré de que los patrocinadores diarios se mencionen en los medios/redes sociales para este día si así se acuerda.

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 The total distance cycling over the 21 days will be over 2700 km !!!

🇪🇸 ¡¡¡La distancia total en bicicleta durante los 21 días será de más de 2700 km!!!