Our Journey

In 2015, we completed a journey between Orihuela court and London Royal Court of Justice on foot. 44 marathons in 44 days with the hope of raising awareness of parental child abduction and parental alienation and also, on a very personal level, to show my daughter that I would travel the world for
her.

http://walkacrossborders.blogspot.com/

On that occasion, we raised funds for the Reunite
International Child Abduction Centre Charity

This time, with our cycle, as well as having another attempt at raising awareness of these issues, we hope to help to raise funds for another charity Parental Alienation Awareness (1187738) who aim to raise awareness, educate, & campaign against this form of child abuse that needlessly disconnects children, parents, & their extended families.

This, many of you know, I can directly relate to...

We are hoping to raise £2000 to help with publishing and distribution costs in the production of parental alienation awareness brochures.

www.paawareness.co.uk

The link for donating to this charity is :

https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/tandemacrossborders-paa

I understand the covid situation has caused financial hardship for many.. Charities like this are also finding these times extremely testing.

If you cant help financially, thats ok. But could I ask that you share my JustGiving page link so others can help to support this worthy charity?

Thanks all xx


Monday 27 March 2023

Century ride 3 of 27

I'm not getting through these rides as quickly as I would like but this has been due to various other commitments and some personal matters that Michelle and I needed to address... Not to mention the fact that we have our wedding planned for the near future.

However, last weekend I completed another century ride that was partly completed on the road bike and partly on the tandem with Michelle.

I had some other news recently. I love to hear when good things happen to good people.. 

This week, two parents who I have been in touch with for several years have been reunited with their children following the most horrifying cases of parental alienation, parental child abduction and false allegations used to frustrate any contact.. 

One of these parents even had a tearful apology from the alienating parent stating that they were TOLD to do this by lawyers... (no excuse.. They should have said no...and those lawyers SHOULD be held accountable for even suggesting it.... but they wont be)

The other parent said that they didn't know whether to tell me as they thought I might be upset as I have still not been reunited with my child..... Please... DO tell me good news like this... I am so so happy for you and really look forward to hearing that you are repairing the damage caused by so many years apart and the alienation tactics that were used over the past decade...

These good news stories really do help affected parents... grandparents... and children as they can see that there might be light at the end of the tunnel... 

No matter how tough the past and today might have been, tomorrow the situation might change completely... It happens!!!!
Stay positive all... and try to keep it together and look after YOU!
Your children will want to be reunited with the same parent they were alienated from... (only stronger and wiser)... Not a broken shell of that parent.

One day closer!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Wednesday 15 March 2023

Mothers Day AND Dia del Padre - 19 Mar

This year, on 19th March, Father's day in Spain is celebrated on the same day as Mother's day in UK...
so.... Happy "Parents Day" all good moms and dads out there.. 


Please don't forget that parents who cannot see their children due to parental child abduction and /or parental alienation ARE still moms or dads on these days.

The difference being that it cannot be acknowledged by the children that they love with all of their hearts... Often due to the cruel and heartless brainwashing of the child at the hands of the other parent or family that claim to love them.

It really is so difficult and the emotions heighten even more on key dates.. 

Thoughts with all affected parents, grandparents, families AND of course, their children.... One day closer x

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Este año, el 19 de marzo, el día del padre en España se celebra el mismo día que el día de la madre en Reino Unido...
 así que... Feliz "Día de mamá y papá" a todas las buenas mamás y papás...

 Por favor, no olvide que los padres que no pueden ver a sus hijos debido al secuestro de niños por parte de los padres y/o la alienación de los padres SON todavía mamás o papás en estos días.

 La diferencia es que los niños no pueden reconocer que aman con todo su corazón... A menudo debido al cruel y despiadado lavado de cerebro del niño a manos del otro padre o familia que dice amarlo.

 Realmente es tan difícil y las emociones aumentan aún más en fechas clave..

 Pensamientos con todos los padres, abuelos, familias afectadas Y, por supuesto, sus hijos.... Un día más cerca x

#fathersday #kidsfirst #parentalalienation #parentalchildabduction #onedaycloser

Parental Alienation Awareness